Archive for January 2nd, 2010

January 2, 2010

I’ll have a lot of explaining to do when my child grows up….

by Rod Smith

“I had an affair with a married man because I was not strong. His wife said I wanted him. One day after work, her husband asked me if I would meet him and I agreed. It made sense because I was already accused. I spent one morning with him and then he started calling and we became very close. Now we have a child and I live with him. I have learned a life long lesson. Because someone makes accusations you do not have to make them true. I have made some decisions in my life that I can never take back. I have caused great pain to both our families. Deep down inside that I want out. I am ready to move on to get my life together. If you are in a situation like mine, walk away. Once it’s done, it is done. You can never take back anything you do. Don’t let people tell you it’s your fault because it’s not. It takes two people. Walk away. I love my baby but when this child grows up, I will have a lot of explaining to do.” (Edited)

Your confession moves me and I trust it serves to help others avoid the circumstance you both created.