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November 2, 2008

What can I do to keep him?

by Rod Smith

“I have been in a relationship for three years and we also live together. Since last month we started fighting about everything. We had a talk last night and he told me he do not know how we can solve this problem. He wants me to loose weight and I do exercise but he still doesn’t seem to see that I’m trying to make him happy. I love him with everything I have do not want loose him. It looks like he does not want be with me no more. What can I do so I don’t loose him? He told me that I have changed and are not the same as i was when we met and when I told him that he changed he didn’t seem to agree. He doesn’t want to have sex with me. He does not hold me at night. He doesn’t tell me by himself that he loves me just when I tell him then he will reply with a loveless tone. Can you please tell me what i can do?”

Victims make most unattractive partners. When you begin to love yourself with “everything you have” you might stop living as a victim. Your over-dependence on this man for your happiness will ultimately drive him (and most men) away.