Archive for January, 2026

January 2, 2026

Uber Hope

by Rod Smith

It’s not a widely known but I drive Uber some days. 

And, just short of 1500 trips over 2.5 years, I love it.

I love it because driving for Uber allows me to meet people I would otherwise hardly have the opportunity to meet.

In the process I’ve become thoroughly aware that it is often the so-called rich who are truly poor, and the poor, who are often really rich.

Uber rides are often reserved by providers of specialized services. These organizations (like adult day-care centers, hospitals, rehab facilities) reserve the rides for the clients.

We either bring the passenger to  such services or take the passenger home after the services have been rendered.

Last night I picked up a man (J) and his support dog (D) who were headed for a rehabilitation facility.

J and D entered my vehicle in quiet humility. We chatted about many things in our hour-long drive. We talked about cars and healthy living. We talked about our sons and daughters. J offered brief and poignant insights into some of the pain he has endured.

J revealed the hope he was experiencing as we drove to what would be his home for at least a number of weeks. 

He gave me hope for my future as he revealed his hope in his own.

January 1, 2026

Reflections……

by Rod Smith

The Mercury (this begins my 25th year of Monday to Friday Mercury columns)……..

It is a die-hard custom for columnist to “reflect” on the past year. Here are broad principles I have found to be true. I hope, readers in Southern Africa and elsewhere, that you will share yours with me:

Life is simultaneously beautiful and brutal. It is wiser to embrace both as fully as is humanly possible. Attempting to reject life’s inevitable brutality seems to delay deep appreciation and awareness of its beauty.

Generosity, kindness, openness to all others are more powerful than any politician or army.

My enemies unknowingly serve me, make me think, make me honor my life with greater effort and dedication. Thank you. I owe you. I long to repay you with grace, respect, and honor.

If I think my sons and their friends cannot teach me anything I soon discover I indeed have a lot to learn.

The most difficult people, the most demanding clients, the most trying customers, are those who offer me the most powerful opportunities to grow, learn, and exercise love and grace.

People do what they want to do. No finely designed intervention or battery of therapeutic skills can stop a person doing what he or she really wants to do.

The minute I blame anyone for anything, I regress. The minute I take responsibility for myself, I grow.

#graceupongrace