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April 5, 2009

I can’t tell anyone what has happened….

by Rod Smith

“I have been married for 25 years. I thought every thing was going well. We were on holiday when my husband told me he loved me but wasn’t ‘in love.’ He hasn’t really talked to me since and doesn’t care about anything in my life. I can’t tell anyone what has happened. I can’t tell my family. I don’t want them to worry about me. I can’t tell friends.lock I am afraid people will think less of me. I don’t know what to do, where to go. When I ask him about it he says he didn’t it but he did. When we go to bed he puts his back to me. When I tell him I love him, he says I’m trying to start a fight. I think everybody will be better off if I’m not here anymore. They can start over without worrying about me. I have nothing. Please help me, please.” (Edited)

dsc_0642While you remain silent with family and friends you keep yourself beyond their helpful and healing touch. Let people in so you may find companionship and understanding. While you remain a victim (voiceless, silent) your husband remains in charge of your future. You will find life most appealing when you work on your future despite what your husband chooses to do.