Archive for July 25th, 2007

July 25, 2007

Wedding plans derailed….

by Rod Smith

“My boyfriend (30) and I (26) are having problems. We met in 2004 and in 2006 he asked me to marry him in December 2007. We moved in together and made wedding plans and I went to buy my wedding dress. In May he put the wedding on hold for financial reasons. Then he lost his job and I have being supporting us and now he wants to move home to his mom. The problem there is that he is not used to battling. Now I feel when he asked his mom if he could come home she should have refused because he had moved out to start his life with me and he must try and make it work. Now he is not interested in finding a job. I just don’t know what to do anymore. He doesn’t seem interested in us anymore. Everyone says I must leave him because he is not treating me right and doesn’t seem interested in going through with the wedding.” (Letter edited)

“Everyone” is correct. If preparing for your wedding is not a somewhat fulfilling and exciting time, being married will certainly not be. Let him go home to his mother – it sounds like they deserve each other. Cut all ties. You are better of without him.