Cut and paste for your Valentine card or romantic conversation. Please tweak to make it more romantic.
Ten ways to love you. I will:
- Not cut you off from your family or friends.
- Take care of myself so I am in good shape to love both of us.
- Do nothing that can be considered controlling because I know love and control cannot coexist within the same relationship.
- Seek acts of intimacy that we both desire and enjoy.
- Encourage you to pursue your interests, hobbies, and passions.
- Do all I can to listen and hear you and I know the difference between the two.
- Fight off any twinges of jealousy I may feel and I will not blame you for any of my feelings – they are mine. I own them.
- Support you to get further education.
- Not allow forgiven material to resurface between us.
- Regularly, for extended periods, several hours at a time, turn off my phone so we can really be together.
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