Green and red flags in relationships……

by Rod Smith
  • She treats people well, especially people who can do little or nothing for her.
  • He has predetermined values and morals that he puts into practice at work and at home. 
  • She seeks ways to serve and include others, especially those who are on the fringes and are accustomed to exclusion.   
  • He listens without interrupting or trying to fix or make recommendations.
  • She is honest with details and is careful not to exaggerate in order to impress.
  • He is quick to listen, slow to judge, and calm in a crisis.     

Red flag behaviors in relationships 

  • He calls people idiots, even people he doesn’t know or has taken time to get to know. 
  • She cheats or cuts corners with other people’s money like expense accounts or office reimbursements.
  • He has the uncanny knack of making himself the center of discussions and interest in all, or most, of his business and social settings.
  • She gossips and spreads negative news about people who are unable to defend themselves.
  • He is rude and demanding with strangers, waiters, helpers and seems to use rudeness to impress others. 
  • She holds onto grudges for years and recounts them with ease.

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