- She treats people well, especially people who can do little or nothing for her.
- He has predetermined values and morals that he puts into practice at work and at home.
- She seeks ways to serve and include others, especially those who are on the fringes and are accustomed to exclusion.
- He listens without interrupting or trying to fix or make recommendations.
- She is honest with details and is careful not to exaggerate in order to impress.
- He is quick to listen, slow to judge, and calm in a crisis.
Red flag behaviors in relationships
- He calls people idiots, even people he doesn’t know or has taken time to get to know.
- She cheats or cuts corners with other people’s money like expense accounts or office reimbursements.
- He has the uncanny knack of making himself the center of discussions and interest in all, or most, of his business and social settings.
- She gossips and spreads negative news about people who are unable to defend themselves.
- He is rude and demanding with strangers, waiters, helpers and seems to use rudeness to impress others.
- She holds onto grudges for years and recounts them with ease.
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