I am just so tired of him…..

by Rod Smith

I am 22-years-old. I have been in a relationship for four years. I do not trust my boyfriend. He lies and he’s very sneaky. When he knows something is his fault he tries to do and say everything there is to cover up and make it seem like it’s my fault. I’m just so tired of him. I’m ready to leave but he always pleads that I don’t. I’m just tired and too young to be going through what I do. Someone help me on advice what to do. Thank you. (Minimal edits)

Separate yourself from their relationships... so they can have relationships.

Replenish, not exhaust.

You don’t need advice, just read your own words: I’m just tired and too young to be going through what I do. Having identified this, I’d suggest you give yourself permission to pursue a future without Mr. Sneaky. Use the “quick and clean” approach. Tell him face-to-face that you are making a decision to date widely. If he insists on an explanation tell him you are tired. Tell him you are too young to face the complexities of a relationship with a high-maintenance, sneaky man who blames others for his issues. At 22, at 62, and beyond, our closest relationships are to replenish us, not exhaust us.

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