Every person has a voice that is designed, urging, even aching, for complete use and full expression. Some people have allowed their voices to be stolen, silenced or modified and such people might find it necessary to take time to find or re-establish the voice they have chosen to deny or ignore. There is nothing “spiritual” or humble about giving up your voice — not even God demands your silence!

Thankfully, suppressing a voice seldom kills it. It can usually be found even after years of denial and even cruelty. This is as true for individuals as it is of entire populations.

Having a voice means exerting your right to see, evaluate, and express who you are, and what you stand for, without apology. It means speaking up. It means telling the world who you are, and what you want. It involves telling the world who you are not and what you will and will not accept of tolerate. It is allowing your life to speak appropriately and boldly, without explanation or excuse.

When you find your voice you will not allow people to speak for you, decide for you, and prescribe how you feel, think or see the world. Of course, you in turn will not take the voice of another away from them.

It is not very loving to give up your voice, or to allow someone else to take yours away from you. People can hardly handle the power of their own voice let alone handle the voice of two or three other people.

Any person who will not hear what you have to say, or who tries to silence you, does not love you even if he says he does. It is never a loving act, except in very unusual circumstances, to stop someone from expressing who they are. Likewise, it is never a loving act to withhold your contribution to the world by maintaining your silence.

You were not created to be silent and nor were you created to silence others. The world will benefit for hearing who you are and what you have to say. Part of owning a voice and using it well involves the process of discovering how best to package and express your voice in a manner that facilitates others to hear who and what you are and what you have to say.

Please, compromise yourself, your talents and skills for no one. Be silenced or made “smaller,” rendered without a voice for no one. It is never worth it. There is no cause, no relationship, worthy of your silence.

There is no person of any rank, no spouse, boss or spiritual leader deserving of your downplaying who and what you are. It is those with dark motives, who seek for you to be less, minimized, diminished or silenced. Walk away from such small-mindedness even if it is costly to do so.

Loving, good people will celebrate your strength, encourage your freedom and admire your talent. Stick with such people. Stay with those who enlarge your world, not restrict or contain it. Live fully, love fully and speak fully – while embracing all the freedom life offers you.

I am weary of men and women, irrespective of who or what they are, who hold others captive, especially in the name of love; of spiritual “leaders” who are afraid of gifted people; of bosses who silence talented people lest their own inadequacies be revealed.

If you live above, and beyond, the damaging jealousies that surround you, you will stimulate the dreams of everyone in your circle of influence and make your own dreams come true before your very eyes – and the world will hear your voice.