Surround yourself with healthy people by being as healthy as possible yourself.

Here are signs you with healthy people:

• They don’t get sucked in or sidetracked by other people’s issues.
• They know the limits of their skills and talents and they don’t volunteer or get involved with things just to appear nice or helpful.
• They build friendships slowly, really slowly.
• When you are with them you always have more choices than you thought possible and you always feel a greater sense of freedom.
• They are ambitious and have goals and sacrifice as necessary to achieve their goals.
• They are close to their families but not trapped by the closeness.
• They honor their parents, but, as adults, they know they are not expected to obey their parents.
• They are kind to people who appear to be able to offer them nothing or little in return.
• They are always kind to people who wait on them and serve them in any manner.
• They avoid making heroes or victims out of anyone.
• They focus on their own behavior and not the behavior of others.
• They have zero desire to control the behaviors of others.
• They are generous with their time, talents, and resources.

Posted on September 3, 2018 at 9:09 am in Difficult Relationships   |  RSS feed |   Reply   |   Trackback URL