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October 4, 2017

Mantra….take your pick

by Rod Smith

The Mercury – Monday

Monday morning mantras – take your pick – I will be using them all this week….

• I will use every encounter to learn and to grow as a person

• I can learn from all other people no matter what their age or status or level of education

• I am neither inferior nor superior to anyone on the planet no matter who or what they are

• Every action has an equal and opposite reaction especially among people who are emotionally connected through love or rejection

• My response to what occurs is more important than what occurs

• Rapid reactions to the actions of others usually fuel later regret

• A rigid reaction is usually unnecessary as almost everything within communities has some room for negotiation

• It is almost always possible for a “win-win” to result in all relationship dilemmas and I am going to help people move towards that by doing so myself

• Healthy people willingly engage in necessary conflict in order to better understand each other, better love each other, and create circumstances for all to enjoy greater freedom

• Love and control cannot coexist in the same relationship – if you have to manipulate and control, it is not love even if you say it is.