• That they will be generous men offering time and talent and financial help to worthy causes.
• That they have a growing and accurate perception of their active role in establishing the lives they want.
• That all their relationships, from intimate to formal to casual, are respectful, mutual, and equal.
• That they will not blame others or circumstances when they face inevitable hurdles and troubles.
• That they will never lose touch with their humanity, not to religion, to the pursuit of wealth, or the pursuit of status or power.
• That they will have the resilient respect for themselves and therefore deepest regard for others.
• That they will treasure the memories of their imperfect childhoods.
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