1. Your close friends think you are becoming too outspoken and are speaking your mind in ways they consider uncharacteristic of you. They say you are out of control.
2. Your have reframed your secrets and can now see how they have held you back or shifted your trajectory and you are doing what you can to get rid of them or use them for your wellbeing rather than your slow destruction.
3. You have seen the light regarding the difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking and have embraced and engaged in the necessary conflict required to be a peacemaker.
4. You have embarked on defining yourself rather than allowing others to do it for you and have faced the music of those who’d prefer you to stay as you were.
5. You are progressively shedding victimhood and taking full responsibility for yourself in every manner: financial, spiritual, psychological, and sexual.
6. You are being generous and kind at every turn and have begun to see first-hand the domino effect of goodness, forgiveness, and generosity.
7. You are writing a script for the immediate and the future that includes respect, mutuality, and equality in all your relationships.

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