“After fifteen years my marriage broke down. I fell ill and my husband’s only interest was I was not sleeping with him. At work I conversed with a male friend. We fell in love. He was also married but we stuck to each other no matter what. Eventually we got caught and it all came into the open. His wife divorced him. We moved in together then he walked out without a reason. After looking I found him back with his wife. We still see each other but when I ask him where are we going he tells me to take it one day at a time. He makes me feel I have a problem. I love him. I would end this relationship if he would be honest and tell he doesn’t want me and I must move on. I’m torn between this guy’s love, loneliness, and not knowing what best for me.” (Letter shortened)
Break this off and consider no relationship for a year or two and you might begin to think clearly. It is not up to this man but up to you. Your affair has offered you no long-term fulfillment. The abdication of responsibility had misled you into a complex web that has blinded you.
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