Symptoms of humility

I’ve alternated “he” and “she” but of course all points apply to men and women. 

• He has finely developed self-knowledge. He knows his talents and uses them well. He does not shy away from his giftings.
• She has a high degree of self-awareness. She knows the power she has to impact the lives of others and governs that power with deep respect.
• He can listen to others without needing to interject his insight, interrupt with his own stories, or follow up with something bigger, better, faster, or more dramatic.
• She openly admits that she avoids getting involved in areas where she is unskilled and lacking in talent. She knows there are talented people best-suited for all tasks. 
• He makes way for others to get ahead in their careers and for others to be acknowledged. He is unintimidated by the strengths of others. 
• She doesn’t use her insights as a weapon or as a means of manipulation, domination, or intimidation. She treasures her freedom and the freedom of others. 
• He is quick to forgive and often does so without needing to be asked. He does not live as a victim. 
• She engages in radical hospitality and commits act of extreme generosity. She is daring with love and openness. 
• He focuses and capitalizes on his strengths while he also fully accepts his weaknesses.

A beautiful rendition of the Umhlanga Pier, South Afirca — Pieter Van Heerden