Avoid
Gossip, rumor, and those who spread it
Disciplining, correcting others when I am annoyed or angry
Passing on hearsay as if it were fact
Following a compliment with a (subtle) insult
Carrying a hidden agenda
Embrace
Truth and praise that is sincere and accurate
Opportunities to speak up for the things about which I am passionate
Transparency, openness, and generosity
Flexibility, good humor, and opportunities to inspire others
Encounters that help everyone grow and change
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