Look me in the eye…..

by Rod Smith

Look me in the eye. Talk to me. I won’t budge from your truth. Tell me the best. Tell me the worst. Tell me the dangerous. I will look you back in the eye and see and then tell you that, like me, you’re part of the human condition, that I accept you no matter what.. 

Look me in the eye. I will look back at you, hopefully with care and hopefully with mercy and charity and acceptance, with love. It’s the kind of love that wants  you to be totally free, empowered to be exactly who you were designed to be. It’s not too late, not for anyone.

Look me in the eye. Tell me of your early years of struggle, of being misunderstood, of being conflicted about what was going on within your conflicted home. Tell me how your history continues to impact you, tries to sabotage your thoughts and your future. I will tell you that I think I understand. 

Look me in the eye and tell me your story, as much or as little as you want to reveal. I will give you my ear. I will listen with my heart. It’s unlikely your story will surprise me. We have probably walked similar paths even though there might be nothing similar about our origins.

2 Comments to “Look me in the eye…..”

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    Ok…after loosing my marriage of 45 years, actual years that included raising kids together…. it took me at least 3-4 years to forgive my wife when she walked out and divorced me. I never had proof that she was unfaithful but I had reasons to believe she was. That’s right, I was 71 when that happened. I was blessed to have a pastor whose parting advise to me was to “pray that the Lord would bless my ex and that he would change me”. At the time I thought that was crazy and hurtful advise….but looking back at it 12 years later, I realize that was solid advise. It opened me up to realize that I had to find the grace, real grace that I needed to forgive her from my heart, in truth and not just theory. I’m convinced that if I had held on to the bitterness and anger I felt, and not forgiven her…I would have sank into a pit of self pity. What didn’t kill me, made me better….simple: refusing to forgive someone who hurts you deeply, is a sure way to get into depression and self destructive stuff.

    Rod, you may remember me from your time in Kona 2008-9

    DE

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