Birth Mothers Day……

by Rod Smith

Soon several nations, including South Africa, will celebrate Mothers Day. 

In affluent areas restaurants will have table reservations for several generations of mothers. In modest settings a bowl of flowers may be arranged for mom.

As a dad to adopted sons I ache for the millions of women (and who sometimes sit silent at the same tables) whose Mothers Day is tainted with shame, loneliness, disconnection, for having made the tough choice for adoption. 

Many women have expressed Mothers Day is not for them, that it’s among the most painful days they endure. 

If that’s you or almost you, and are in KZN, and your adoption was recent or decades ago, I have an invitation for you:

Please join me for lunch or an early dinner on May 11, 2024. Come alone of bring a friend. Expenses for your lunch will be fully covered. The venue will be beautiful and private and safe —- details still unfolding. 

Please email Shirley@ShirleyWilliams.co.za so we can get you — and a friend — onto the list and get details to you as they unfold. 

Happy Birth Mothers Day, brave woman. 

Generous readers, restaurateurs, sponsors, gift bag creators, please email Shirley you’d like to pay for a meal or sponsor a table or assist in any manner.

What will you get out of it? 

Nothing but the joy of knowing you did it. 

2 Comments to “Birth Mothers Day……”

  1. Unknown's avatar

    You are over the top generous from your heart my dear dear friend…your words bring such comfort to me and such a beautiful fresh understanding of adoption. Thank you for being so amazing 🥰

  2. Unknown's avatar

    Wow…this is such a beautiful concept. I wish it was done all over the world…and it should be. How beautiful that you will be a part of hosting this! 

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