Five goals…..
Become the most generous person you know. This is not a challenge to give away all your money or possessions, rather it is a challenge to appreciate that you are probably in a position where you are able to empower others and reduce some anxiety for others were you to open your hand and wallet more often.
Become the most hospitable person you know. This is not a challenge to unwisely open your home to strangers (but keep in mind a stranger is most often a friend you do not yet know) or place yourself in danger. It is an invitation to identify the lonely people whom you already know and to be a source of welcome and comfort to them.
Become self-aware. This is a challenge to embrace the opposite of selfishness. A self-aware person takes into account the impact he or she has on others and seeks always to do his or her part to initiate friendship, to participate in community, and to do no harm.
Become a focussed listener when it is time to listen (it’s not always time to listen) to another. This is a challenge to resist finishing thoughts and sentences for others and deciding you already know what they are going to say. When it is time to listen, drop everything and do so.
Become aware of what is necessary to share with others and what is not. This is a challenge to self-edit. Not all you think and feel needs to be expressed. Learn the power and value of holding onto yourself both for your own integrity and to respect and honor the privacy of others.
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