What will you do with your anger?
I suggest you get in first.
You will either deal with it or it will deal with you.
Yes, get in first.
Waiting too long may be to your detriment (it tunnels deeper and deeper into you) and the detriment of those who love you (who are subject to your hurtful outbursts) and those around you (who dance on eggshells around you).
What many fail to understand is that Anger does not have the same capacity for denial its hosts have. The angry man or woman may claim “No Anger Here” and call the outbursts by more acceptable, nice-sounding names names, but anger doesn’t care about its hosts or how it is named or paraded.
Its a destroying virus and like any virus it attaches and grows and spreads and has no boundaries or limitations.
You will either deal with Anger or Anger will deal with you.
If you are reading this and getting angry – well, what more do you need?
Get the help you think you don’t need.
When you are calm and objective and can talk about how anger is eating you up – you are most available for help.
Fire can be fought with fire.
Not anger.
Anger cannot be fought with Anger.
Destruction awaits.
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