My recent South African trip led to many conversations during which I tripped over some glorious new-to-me one-liners. Perhaps they’re old hat to many South Africans, grafted into common usage, but I found each rather refreshing.
“Keep your head out of that noose,” said a woman to a friend on hearing of a complex domestic issue and an invitation to comment. A rather graphic picture I thought, an ear-catching way to alert others to being trapped in toxic triangles and a rather hard image to forget.
“My mother would always encourage us to be a ‘rainbow in someone’s cloud’,” said an avid Mercury reader I bumped into at the mall.
I chuckled, asked her to repeat it and, when she did, she said, “please use it in a column soon.”
“That’s a wave you don’t want to ride,” said the seasoned surfer who confessed he’d almost forgotten Mothers Day was just around the corner.
While I did enjoy multiple cups of tea in both homes and restaurants and repeatedly heard that tea makes everything feel better — and I affirm it often does — I also heard a man say in passing and in competition with the inherited British belief in a good cup of tea that “there’s nothing like a good bunny* with lots of gravy to make everything feel better.”
*Durban and surrounding areas “bunny chow” — an Indian Curry served in a half-loaf of white bread.
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